If you shag someone who isn't your girlfriend, who happened to be a violinist, while you were locked in a restuarant, with whom you cheated on the person who thought she was your girlfriend, whom you were shagging when your wife was coping with a cancer diagnosis,

it's ok if you say it was unintentional.

- Do not go gentle into that good night, Old age should burn and rave at close of day; Rage, rage against the dying of the light. -